Re: Please help me
This is the worst thing you can do while having a fairly good marriage. We don’t know the whole story yet, only one sided stuff. Even if I want to belive that this guy is jerk, you never ever want to have an affair just to make a point. Your reputation will be ruined forever and that would never heal. Having said that, if you were in western world, I would say go see a therapist or check his past if he is a quite guy? Start with baby steps to make him love you. Make some of his fav foods, talk to his mother/family and be very nice to them. Even if he is not in good mood tell him how you spent ur day, force it, make it short. But don’t complain, and never giveup. He probably is going through the same phenomena of arrange marriage, help him understand that this is life let’s make the best of it. I also disagree " typical Pakistani guy, nonsense, na marad" comment, absolutely wrong.