Re: please help me!
Oh the kids are making fun of her or something?
Hm. That's weird. Usually kids get super excited about dulhan aunty (dulhan chachee or dulhan maami or whatever).
That's not an easy thing to handle, but do not under any circumstance indulge the kids or get into fights with them. Just smile and ignore them, and they'll eventually give up. At some point, point it out to the hubby and ask him if he thinks it is alright that they poke fun at you.
Again, communication.
I don't know what is going on in this house. Maybe she is getting into arguments with the kids, as if she's a kid herself. What "respect" does that land you?
And again, SIX YEARS. If I had six years, I'd know everyone in the family and everything about them down to what STD's they have.