please help me!

How is this an issue dude.. HOW??!!!
I would kick my husband if he didn't help his parents distrube food. At this age, it shouldn't be their headache where the leftover food should go. I don't care how late my husband comes in the bedroom, he should take care of it, not his parents. Its a tough job. So much leftover and figuring out where to put it... not easy.
So what he tells you to iron clothes. Is that an issue??!! Shouldn't you be doing it without him telling you to do it. You maybe newly married.. ok understandable but a lot times families have to get back to their regular routine because of how some things function at their house.
He spends time with his friend??!! HOW is that an issue?!! You guys just got married, maybe he is still used to the same old life of going hanging out with his friends, so what. Give it time man... he ain't gonna leave his friends overnight for you.
GOSH... i thought I created issues out of nothing and then I read this!