Girl obviously i cannot feel what you are going through right now, however as per what you have said right now i dont think any of it is that serious, i do appologise if you are offended, but everything you just mentioned can be resolved by talking. As far as him asking you to work goes well you got to talk to him, him caring about his family well it is the time cuz everyone is paying too much attention to you guys so he is trying to be in the best behaviour, but i dont think these should be reasons for a divorce.