i do not want to sound mean or cold but your post is making me write that you are kind of exaggerating the situation or it could be that you have played a vital role in turning the situation like this e.g. you said you wore see through dress?..i mean what were you thinking? you are living with in laws and and there are some norms that one should follow while living with parents…sahi kaha unhoun nay…kapray demag say soch kar pehnnay chaiyay.
secondly waking up early…see we have always been hearing that after shadi the girl has to accommodate herself with the new rules, norms in fact with everything, if your husband wants you to wake up early n help his mother then do it for the sake of making him happy…it’s all about giving giving n giving in the initial years of marriage yar…do whatever he wants you to do if you want to work this marriage out or else get out of there.
Thirdly you have known your husband for 6 years, has he been abusive before?
you have spent a lot of time with him …did you not get the idea that he could turn into this monster and you must have had some idea about the family too?
darn, Such kind of stuff scare the hell out of me when i think of getting married:|…if you cant handle the situation then go back n end your misery please…or pray to Allah …namaz-e-hajat etc
btw does he allow you to use internet n computer?:S