Re: please help me!
half the things you write make it sound like you are scared of working hard/adjusting to in-laws lifestyle and expectations. expectations that you had no clue about before getting married, no doubt. so now either work hard, or negotiate with them about their expectations. no point in crying or showing anger.
secondly, if you've known someone for 6 years, why is it so hard to communicate with the person today? what is different now from before you were married? no one can do fake drama for 6 years. he's the same guy.
thirdly, how about finding a job? you'll get a lot more leverage as an independent woman than as someone stuck at your guys mercy.