Re: Please give me some advice!
Paheli! Thank you for helping me. You made this easier for me and I am at peace now knowing that I have full rights to ask all the questions I want. May Allah swt bless all of you! Ameen!
Yes, PLEASE insist on seeing the actual green card yourself.
I have a major problem with this guy putting the baby condition like this. Things like this should be discuss and decided on MUTUALLY. But this guy, he has already decided that he wants his wife to get pregnant within months of marriage…whether or not she’s ready. And also, since he’s so desperate for a baby…God forbid what if his wife has trouble conceiving? How will he handle it then?
Please don’t marry a guy b/c you want to get away from your ex or think you need to get married before some magical age b/c you’re getting “old”. Those are HORRIBLE reasons to behind a marriage and it will lead you to choose a partner who could easily make your life very unhappy. Please have patience and do not sell yourself short.