Re: please advise
wow!!
firstly.....you said she is converting to Islam!! by breaking someone's home and being involved with a married man!! this doesnt sound right...does he really think this is the way to earn 'sawab'..
secondly...Allah has said "O Mankind! Fear your Lord Who created you from a single soul and from it created its mate.."
ONE!!..not two..three or four....!! multiple marriages are NOT encouraged in Islam...under dire circumstances...like war...and during times when Islam was spreading..and in many cases...women who converted to Islam were shunned by their families...Allah had encouraged his followers to take them into Nikah..for their protection....ONLY if they were able to treat them equally!...so Allah has placed a condition next to this possibility...then it also goes on to warn that you cannot. "You will never be able to be fair and just among women (wives)...." Qur’an (4:129)...because it is very difficult to be just/fair with them emotionally...financially etc...
It has nothing to do with pleasure...or whatever reasons men come up with NOW..