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He should give your cousin 14 years of her life back.
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She should tell him to sit the kids down and tell them,
"Kids, daddy has fallen in love with another woman younger than mommy. She's young and pretty and makes my manhood tickle. I want to ask you if its ok if I break your mommy's heart and go marry this other woman. Its ok kids, I will spend time with you guys, just not as much."
And then he should tell his daughter (if he has one).. "I hope you find a man who loves you, has kids with you and after you've given him the world, takes off with another woman. Then you can come home crying to me."
Or better yet, maybe she should cut his man parts off.
I'd do the latter.
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^^Good reply Yp...minus the cut his man parts off of course.
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so... he just wants to have an affair legally?
She should tell him to sit the kids down and tell them,
"Kids, daddy has fallen in love with another woman younger than mommy. She's young and pretty and makes my manhood tickle. I want to ask you if its ok if I break your mommy's heart and go marry this other woman. Its ok kids, I will spend time with you guys, just not as much."
And then he should tell his daughter (if he has one).. "I hope you find a man who loves you, has kids with you and after you've given him the world, takes off with another woman. Then you can come home crying to me."
Or better yet, maybe she should cut his man parts off.
I'd do the latter.
the husband loves his wife alot he says he wants them both and he has just fallen in love with that girl as they were working together and it had nothing to do with the wife wether she was good to him or not and he wasnt looking for someoneelse it just happened he says sex has nothing to do with it he just fell in love with her he has never touched her they talked only on the phone. The wife has told him that he is living in fantasy and she will kick him out of his life if he would go ahead with this marriage and this is so weird he wants them both to live together with him or get a separate house for her and give them equal rights as stated in islaam, he also says to his wife she would earn a good deed if she lets him go ahead with this because the other woman is a sikh and is ready to convert tro islaam.
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orton ki jealousy naa...
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A husband/wife cannot be shared. Full stop.
cut his man parts off
ouch! very ouch!
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Can a boy and a girl just b friends...???
This is a very sad situation, the man knows he shouldn't even have got himself in this position and is trying to justify it by making out they r doing a good deed by making someone a muslim.
What can the wife do, really? In england a man is not allowed to have more than 1 wife, he can b jailed for it.
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oh my god 
so he loves her but he loves the other one too soon he wil have enough love for the bloody rest of the world im sorry to say but what a dog . if he wants to get re married he should be able to treat both wives justly in all ways e.g. love , initmate , financially
his reason just seems pure lust , jeez a man like that should be shot .
and he cant marry an unbelieiving women and the onli reason she will become muslim is for him not for god and is the husband a practising muslim ya bus aveen naam ka
if he is really practising has a beard reads namaaz and really believes in god then u cud understand him wanting to do the good deed of converting the sikhni but if he is just naam ka he needs to be a good muslim himself first rather then trying to convert someone else.
and what is with the sikhni cudnt she find some sing im sure there is enough of them heree tellher to go to southall she will be married within an hour stupid witch
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There is such a thing as adultery of the voice, and of the eyes and of the ears. It doesnt only hav to b physical. Everytime he talks to her (AND THERE IS NO NEED TO TALK TO HER) he is committing adultery of the voice and ears. Everytime he looks at her with desire, he is committing adultery of the eyes. More contact will fuel this attraction to her.
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if this is in uk is it not going to b classed as bigamy?
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Eww what a disgusting perv. And it says alot about the woman who is knowingly involved with a married man. I dont understand how these men can leave their good wives for outside trash? Dont they see what kind of morals these women have to begin with? Today some other woman's husband, whose to say after marriage she wont be chasing yet another woman's husband. These tricks thrive on feeling like they're some sort of special trophy cuz the man left the nice shareef mother of his kids at home to come get entangled in her charms. Kill them both I say.
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^or an even simpler way how about she goes up to him n says ‘umm bura nhi manana but i have another guy in my life n i have promised to marry him, dnt get me wrong i still love u but i cant help myself’
i wonder what his reaction is going to b?
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what country is this happening in? He can't marry two at a time in the US. Is this in PK?
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I can understand where all of you guys are coming from and the thought of my husband falling in love with someone else after 13 years is pretty scary but look at the situation from the guys point of view. He didn't choose to feel that way about this other woman. Offcourse i am sure he was doing things such as talking to na-mehram on the phone while being married which offcourse all of you guys think is okay to do because a guy and a girl can be just friends. But this is the result of those things which we consider "halal" in todays society. And its too late for what he shouldn't have done, it sounds like he has made up his mind about marrying this other woman. And how come no one pointed any finger towards this other woman whoes wrecked a home? I think he did the right thing by telling her. He is way better than ba$tards who cheat on their wives and actually marry these women and think that its okay to lie to your wife about it.
Your cousin has two options, either let him have a second wife or leave him. She has to think about the kids(i dont have any so i cant tell you what else comes with that). Most importantly, she has to consider herself. Is she going to be happy with a divorce? Can she go through a lifestyle where she has to share her husband? I am sure he will help out with kids if he is making her part of the decision. Can she support her self financially and emotionally? What kind of support will she get from her family and friends? And offcourse shes gonna have to consider re-marrying, but thats later.
She should tell him to sit the kids down and tell them,
"Kids, daddy has fallen in love with another woman younger than mommy. She's young and pretty and makes my manhood tickle. I want to ask you if its ok if I break your mommy's heart and go marry this other woman. Its ok kids, I will spend time with you guys, just not as much."
And then he should tell his daughter (if he has one).. "I hope you find a man who loves you, has kids with you and after you've given him the world, takes off with another woman. Then you can come home crying to me."
Or better yet, maybe she should cut his man parts off.
I'd do the latter.
Seems like the best thing to do minus the cut off part.