I have heard many stories of young widow and orphan women who are surviving harder in Pakistani society. Sexual harassment and confronting the other hardship of life ,doing all alone for a woman ,specially in Pakistan, is not easy. My cousin tried to help a woman by paying her rent and grocery ,but she did not accept it ....because in this case many other ppz were questioning............as she is pro......
In Pakistan women are double in number then men .............. so ,Do you think they should live alone all their life ?
Stylical if you are a woman, why don't you start the good work, and marry your husband to 3 more? and stop pointing out the social benefits of multiple marriages or the need of multiple marriages to other people, with out first really trying hard to reap those benefits and fulfill the social need yourself...go a head.... let us know of your experience, after you have done this, meaning married your husband to 3 more women....
if you have not aldready done this , (for the reason that your husband doesn't want to marry other women, but u want him to), then i am afraid you are still not in a position to point to its need/benefits ....