lol where do these people come from, it's just not normal behaviour... a man with a wife of 14 years and 3 kids should know better than to not fall in love (wotever thats supposed to mean anyway) with any floosy that comes by. A woman who doesn't have enough decency to leave a man who has been married for 14 years and has 3 kids alone, is floosy.
It borders on retarded behaviour, monogamy should have been a pillar of Islam, being allowed to marry four women 'if' you can treat them all equally is like saying you can drink alcohol if you can drink just enough that it doesn't intoxicate you...ffs lol.
just my views dont barl plx