Re: Playing the field?
So, I went and met her with my sister, coffee shop style, because we met online we felt this was safe first. Good news is I was still attracted to her in person and she was still attracted me to as well. This was after a good 2 months of texting..She lives kind of far away, like 4 hours away so I had to set out a whole weekend/hotel visit just to see her. The meeting it self was kind of underwhelming, we didn’t talk much actually maybe 2 hours of talking? But the main reason of going was just to check her out In real life anyway so, ya.
My family has calm down advising me, partially because I told them not too. But they also know they shouldn’t push their luck to much and that they should have trust in my ability to chose a potential spouse.
So far we are somewhat in limbo because she’s really busy in than next month with wedding season and other stuff, and so am I. And after may comes Ramadan so that will be another hurdle. But after that I think our families will meet and see what happens.
It definitely feels like the process is kind of dragging, I’m sure for other people this stuff happens in days/weeks/ but for me its months.