Re: Pk guys who married "foreign" born&bred: pls comment
I would want my woman to stay at home and take care of things she is supposed to, instead of pretending to be something she is not i.e. a man.
jazbati bhai, acc. to one hadith-e-mubraik (PBUH) you are obliged to pay (even your wife...in fact pay em double) if she is taking care of your house.
so women are always working :p
dont ever think that your doing a huge "ehsan" (favor) by providing them with "food, clothing, shelter" :p
ps. this women pretending to man vibe started after return of men from World Wars. where few wana help their wives, but couldnt help cuz they lost either a leg(s) or an arm or maybe their entire body in the War. whereas rest of em wanted to be lost in the "spirit" of trance. so this entire situation men called themselves.
beside get a wife who can tackle difficult situations, even when you are not there rather then the one who fully depends on you. (just a thought)