sometimes the best option is [none of the available ones]...means...some situations die on their own if you don't keep them alive through ur thinking and attention. i know its not easy but you've got to do what you've got to do.
Saieen baba ji tusi gul to wadi chungi karday ooo per nothing dies if you think or not as new thing start after one thing. Ppl like Chameli's SIL don't stop they keep doing one after another to hurt the person whom they become jealous of.
Chameli dear ppl who become jealous of you by any reason does that thing to keep ignoring you to make themselves happy.
Good to hear that you talk to your husband and now not pissed off any more.
You don't know I saw a girl whoe's all in laws don't give her a single lift since the first day. Always tried to get divorce from their son or brother. They always try no matter what and it's been 20 years of marriage. That girl don't say a single word to them neither her husband. They even make stories of lies and tell to her husband in front of her. At that time she doesn't say anything too. Her husbnd keep saying same thing what her sisters, brothers, father and mother says most of the time. But she doesn't change her behaviour she keep giving lot's of expensive gifts, keep loving them and herself keep giving them good advices to benefit them.
What she understand that they are all jealous of her and can't behave well to her because of jealousy.
Chameli you said that she your sister in law didn't ask or involve you guys. What her in laws did. They didn't even tell and invite her and her husband. So what she can complain? She don't complain to her husband as she don't want to hurt his feeling more. Can you understand how he would have felt when he found by her wife that his brothers and sisters got married and have kids and he didn't even know. How much he would have hurt by knowing this from her wife.
PPl are very mean these days. He was the brother who took care of whole family and let them have eduction and provide everything for them. They even kick him out of their house. Hide from them.
Now her mom passed away and it didn't hurt him that much he didn't cry even didn't felt that sad as much as he felt sad on his MIL death as she use to behave like he is her son and he use to behave like she is his mother.
All his life he always in front of her wife said my family is good they didn't do anything wrong as he was the chashm e deed gawah of everything.
The his mom died he said my mom said this and this to me and wife was amazed all his life he kept denying those things.
They In Laws forget Allah is there too. They have to behave well other wise they will be caught for that.
Allah sub ko hidayat day Ameen.