I will never get this. If you are pissed off with anybody just tell them! Whenever i ask my sister or my female friends, a girlfriend whatever, if they are angry or they are upset, they usually say nothing is wrong.
Of course they then proceed to go and sit down for a good long pout or just be plain rude and i as a guy am clueless. I have no clue what i did wrong but hey i am getting blamed.
I have resorted to ignoring it if they don’t wanna tell me fine don’t tell me, i will just go do my own stuff. However i have learnt that is the dumbest thing i could ever do. It pisses off females even more. So that is not a good idea.
Then of course is the nagging and trying to figure out what is wrong. You sit down or bother the female until she tells you. Of course that requires you to go through some rather strange forms of abuse covering ideas and concepts from nearly a decade ago or however long you have known the female.
Once she decides she is ok you are informed you are forgiven and that the reason was such and such.
That of course is usually after a day. Anybody want to ****ing explain the logic in this?
See if you upset a girl the girl will expect you to atleast realise what you have done. The fact that you don;t realise yourself further pisses her off. Now if you show indifference to the fact that she is pissed off by leaving her alone or doing your own stuff that will certainly put u in an even worse spot for firstly having pissed her off and then not giving a damn. That period when she doesn;t tell you whats wrong is your chance of redemption where if you try you may figure out what you did wrong and apologise and kiss and makeup. If you failt to realise then yes keep showing you are concerned about her mood even if you’re not which you probably aren;t beyond the fact that you have no idea what triggered the bad mood. Once she thinks she can forgive you she will come back to you herself, give you the reason, talk it out and then be okay after a while. By the way if you ask enough times she may even give you the reason in her mood-off mode. Pretty simple if you ask me!
It’s like the male time-out thing, when they just need to be by themselves and don;t want to be bothered. Women don;t want to be entirely by themselves, they want their guy to keep hovering around them.
No **** i don’t. There are countless things i could do to offend anyone person. You think i keep track of them. Plus the concept is why don’t you females just TELL us what the problem is.
So basically if she is pissed off i am supposed to start being a bloody mind reader? Great Though seriously i job is to nag her to death when she is upset? Ouch that is a very easy way to get alot of abuse.
We only want you to be a little sensitive thats all. Mind reading is good too. Take a few guesses. Truth is if you have been a jerk, deep down you know you have been one and shoudln;t need to be told.
Femme come on its just they don't want to sacrifice their pride and admit that they did something wrong to hurt you. That's all. It's not like they don't realise what they did wrong, but they act all innocent like they don't even know why you're upset, its all an act!
no no, you dont become a mind reader. you tell her AFFECTIONATELY
"darling/behna/ammi/hey dude I can't for the life of me figure out what I did to hurt you, but it must be something I've done, and since I dont know what it is, I must have just been an imbecile and not realized I was doing something wrong WHEN I WAS doing something wrong...can we talk it out, so that I can be more mindful next time?"
Good god there is no reasoning with women. How can i know i have been a jerk if i don't know what i did? A little sensitive is another word for "hey i wanna beat you up" right? Sensitivity would be of course the nagging and pestering her about what is wrong?
I used to be like that, especially when I expected the person to know exactly what was wrong without me saying anything than I would get upset. I had to learn the hard way that you should just say what is on your mind, makes things a lot less complicated.
CM bhai, I just told you the best line you can give them AND get away scotch free. Within 24 hours, she’ll be hugging you or kissing you or making love to you or going out with you (depending upon your relation to her of course).
Now stop complaining - try out this line maaring technique - be appreciative that some chic gave you this insight - and see if it works for you.
I agree with Belle. Life is too short to start playing the "I'm gonna ignore you" game. It's better to just be up front and straight forward about it and tell the other person what they did to upset you.
Vaisay to be honest I think the pride issue is with the females in not wanting to spell it out for the guys He should realise himself, I’m not going to tell
Nawww your right…it’s the men!
Ouch overflow. Pouting and throwing a fit or brooding, nagging and spitting out barbed comments without being willing to discuss whats wrong is just moronic, in my opinion. If you can't discuss it why should i even try to figure out what the problem is.
Females et al. You all know very well that if you comment that you have no clue what you did wrong but are apologising anyway you are in trouble as well. You just can't say i am sorry without knowing what the problem is. That i believe shows insensitivity as you are just trying to make her happy instead of actually attemptiing to solve the problem she has. Correct?
make her happy --> she'll at least open communication with you --> then you can figure out the problem --> if you want to argue that you were right, then you CAN because now you KNOW what the problem is --> solve the problem.
Instead of :
she wont tell you --> you dont know problem --> can't solve problem --> frustration which she mistakes as indifference --> then you're committing one more sin in her eyes --> sleeping the night on the couch.
Gals if you think of it in a different way....all men are dain-bramaged....makes life a little easier. Guys really dont understand when we're mad...what pissed us off. I used to think that my hubby did things to piss me off and get out of things that needed to be done but that really isnt the case...he's just oblivious. Just last nite, our doc called,,,with important info abt our baby....i was trying to talk to the doc, all 3 boys were getting loud so i went off into the bedroom to chat with the doc. When I came out, the dog had stolen a whole chicken (our dinner) off the counter, was wolfing it down in the living room and the boys were climbing the walls. Dearest hubby was happily gup-shupping, had no idea whatsoever whythe mama was all pissed. welcome to real life lol!!! things are usually not that disastrous and he is usually a gem but the times that I get so pissed that I want to throttle him, i need to step back and remind myself that it really isnt his fault, he's just being a GUY.
He should realise himself, I’m not going to tell 
