Pick the odd one out

[samraali22]

yeah like if they get them married early who will take care of their babies,these days its difficult for the husband to provide alone,wife is also suppose to work in some cases so how can someone manage that?

[soni27]

yeah gr8 now personally attack him,when you know hes making sense n you dont have an answer.

:CareBear:

[sweefs]

@Submission_To_Peace

Brother, the least harmful to the society would be the one who realizes his sins, repents and don’t commit the sin again no matter whichever category he belongs to. Though I understand that apparently it seems that few of the above mentioned people are relatively less harmful to the society, but it might not be like that in real life. Such people usually get so sick by such acts that later they want a change and try other alternatives with time. It can be seen from the crime reports of criminals that people who in their young age only used masturbation as source of satisfying their desires later went on to commit bigger sins such as rape. Research shows that even"An unmarried person who masturbates and satisfy sexual urges from non-living objects " would soon switch to people around him, either relative or neighbors.

In short, we never know which is a lesser sin, as in such acts there are always chance for the person to switch from one activity to other because they are looking for the “ultimate satisfaction” in the wrong place. Their example is like a thirsty person in the desert who sometimes find mirage in front of him, sometimes on his left, sometimes on his right. He keep trying to jump in them one by one hoping that anyone of them would help is satisfying his thirst, but non of them can satisfy it as they are all fantasy and illusion of his eyes.

The best solution for all the above cases is following the guide lines of the religion, as people can’t know their “satisfaction system” more than their own CREATOR who has shown us the path to ultimate physical, mental and spiritual satisfaction through the teachings of the Prophets.

May Allah (swt) bless us with the strength and wisdom to follow the sunnah of the Prophet in satisfying our desires.

:k:

[Code_Red]

yeah like if they get them married early who will take care of their babies,these days its difficult for the husband to provide alone,wife is also suppose to work in some cases so how can someone manage that?

The one who will take care of the babies if they marry late :)

The point is simple. Regardless of age, People nowadays have plans for starting their family.

Couples can delay it for some years while they complete their education and start job/business.

Married life would never be bed of roses whether you start it at 18 or 28. It will always require long strugle and sacrifice. On the other hand getting married at 28 does not give any kind of assurance that it will be a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

So why waste a decade in solitude ? Specailly in a society which has witnessed its fallouts. i.e those people who get married very late find it extremely difficult to adjust for each other