Physical relationships and marriage

[Paa_Jee]

Re: Physical relationships and marriage

@redvelvet

Yes, OP, your friend is exempt from all blame, from all accountability. It is not his fault at all; it is the fault of society and his parents. It’s everybody’s fault but his. I cannot tell whether your strong defense of this guy makes him fortunate to have you as a friend or whether it’s an insult to him that you (as a friend) find him to be soooo severely lacking in his own aqal, conscience and capabilities. Your hamdardi for him reads sort of like a left-handed compliment where the recipient is being shown favor and insulted simultaneously.

So what should he do? Give up, not marry? Continue the lifestyle of one night stands?