Physical relationships and marriage

[Paa_Jee]

Re: Physical relationships and marriage

@Paheli00

I know plenty of desi and non-desi people…men AND women who dated multiple people and was sexually active before they got married. The difference b/t them and your friend? They didn’t have to “convince” themselves to switch to monogamy and weren’t worried about how they can stay faithful…certainly not during their engagement/early marriage. They weren’t selfish enough **to agree to marry a person until they were 100% sure that they **could be faithful to that person. If you friend is already having second thoughts…I shudder to think what he will feel when the honeymoon phase is over and the marriage becomes “routine” full of the typical stressors.

How can you be 100% sure that they were 100% sure? You can never know.