Physical relations before marriage...obviously no-one is going to deny that its haram but then are most things...as kazi pointed out you can only meet members of the opposite sex with mehram and you can only discuss few things before you get married...so most boy/girl things rae haram before you get married...
Like i said in another thread...if your horny one looking for some action then if you can hold yourself till your married its not a bad idea at all...your not sinning and you have no standards or expectations physically...which inevitably means a partner cant dissapoint you physically...for women your orgasms are gonna come easier...and both of you are gonna get better with time and practice...
Just make sure especially if your a boy that the girl is a virgin aswell or your gonna have a tough time...
And as for the non virgins amongst yourselves...i doubt they would put up with no physical relations before marriage...your accustomed to having it so why would you put up with not having it...all good things are worth the wait but if your not a virgin your not gonna wait...
If you can then i cant understand it...especially if you dont know what she'll be like...iv met girls who are useless at what they do and girls who are good...you create a benchmark and becom e harder to satisfy so why wouldnt you try before you buy...
It should be like and like...if your a virgin get with a virgin and your in an enviable situation...you can explore each other together and learn to satsify each other gradually...i would have loved to have done that...
But if your not then i dont see how you can change things round...
In one thread you say that you’re so pure that you’ve never been in a single relationship, now you’re talking as if you’ve been dating since you were 12 to pass judgement on how women need sex more than men. Yaar, make up your mind about what type of personality you want to portray here in cyber space. You can’t have it both ways.
Like I’ve said before, you have absolutely no credibility.
K4plan, you are arguing with a child, there’s no point, he’s a chota saa baby, probably an only child or the only boy in his family so he’s spoiled rotten and always has to have his way. Leave him be. He has no credibility. He changes his story like women change hairstyles. He claims to be such a pakka muslim but then he says that it is acceptable for young men to make cat calls and say filthy things to women if they are dressed inappropriately. He claims that he is such a pakka muslim that he’s never been in a relationship but then talks about women as if he’s dated a hundred of them. You’re arguing with someone who doesn’t believe in logic or reason, fuggetaboudit.
17, 19, no difference Sara. He's still a bacha and has a lot to see in the world.
I am sure he is currently very confidant with his views, but as people mature, so does their mentality. We will see how Afridi feels about certain issues in a few years if he is still with us at Gupshup.
Sorry Mehnaz khaala, he just gets on my nerves. I was 17 once too, but I used to listen more and talk less, I think that’s how people learn. People who clearly don’t know what they’re talking about should learn from others, not just try to talk whenever the opportunity presents itself. My dad always used to say that the loudest voice in the wild is that of a donkey who has nothing of substance to say but is noisy as hell.
