Physical Involvement

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Re: Physical Involvement

@Pisiform

I totally understand it. Coming forward doesn’t go well for a muslim girl. Not that but even if they were married halal way and got divorce, they have a hard time finding a guy who see them as damaged goods. Its sad but its true. But still lying about it to a potential guy doesn’t seem right to me. And needless to say, it goes both ways.

I don’t think marrying is that hard for divorcees now, though I do know of people who are prejudiced against them. Couple of years ago a man 45 years old, never married, asked for help to find rishta. One of my friends him told of a 30 year old, beautiful, well educated, who was married for like 2 weeks and then divorced bcoz the guy had totally lied about his family and job etc. This 45 yr old complained to me about my friend that he told him of rishta of a divorcee, really pissed me off.