Physical Involvement

[PinkPearls_N_Ponies]

Re: Physical Involvement

@Pisiform

Nobody is sinless. My point is if that person truly loves you, he would forgive you and look past you. Otherwise he would not marry you to begin with and thats a good thing. Because if he later finds out that she slept with the whole neighborhood (or one person - does it make a difference? no) after having 2.5 kids, he would leave you anyway.

Point is not about using the truth against someone. But about establishing trust and looking past it.

Even white chicks don’t straight up lie. They might not go into detail or they might tone down # of people who they have slept with but they won’t claim they virgin freakin mary.

Brown girls are scaring me more and more now

establishing trust and looking past it (in the initial stages: (marriage or the rishta process))? easier said than done.. not every guy out there is the same… especially if you are going the arranged marriage route. i have seen guys get away after saying the darnest ****…can we do the same?? (as much as i wanna try it out..my mum will surely wring my neck) - i dont think so.

you are not cheating..you are not lying - it is the past and that is where it should be..behind you. not haunting your present and screwing your future up!

if the guy leaves you after 3727 years in marriage and kids over something that he had found about the girls past (no. of men (1) she had slept with or whatever) ..then idk that’s really mature of him.. if he truly loves you he will not let that detail get in between the relationship..

..and yes it different with white girls lol toning it down wouldn’t really do us any good nor dodging the details. it is a pandora box!