Physical Involvement

[Reha]

Re: Physical Involvement

@pak2015

Lol i would stop promoting this–it’ll be used by us (men and women) to justify our sins. You know how we are, all of us pick and choose which sins are worse than others and try to justify it to ourselves and make us feel better–its human nature. For some sexually related sins are worse than lying or cheating and vice versa. We often categorize and rank sins based on our own priorities, values and convenience.

My point is we as humans have justifications for everything. No one is perfect, if made a mistake the sensible thing to do is just own up to it instead of purposefully hiding it–just to avoid any perception of deceit. If a guy or girl breaks an engagement because of it then it’s good you don’t want to marry such a person anyways and it’s good it happened before the marriage.

If you believe that Islam gives us room to twist then that is your call. What I wrote doesn’t JUSTIFY anything. It tells us to keep our sins to ourselves…to still repent but keep them to ourselves. There is a huge difference.

Also, owning up that mistake is not something that needs to be done in front of another human being unless it directly impacts them. The forgiver and ultimate judge is Allah. Not you. Owning up in front of others is not needed.