Physical Involvement

[ekumunng]

Re: Physical Involvement

@S_Punk

If the condition of ur spouse is to know everything about ur past before u marry… and u hide it anyway, fine. Ur fault…huge trust issues here. Should have found someone else. But if u just start listing ur ex’es and escapades unprovoked, like OYMWA said.. u put that info out there urself and it can be used however later on… u won’t be able to take it back.

One of my very close friends told her husband before marriage that she liked someone and strongly pursued him for marriage, they had a relationship for a few years but it didn’t work out… husband agreed to marry her, they’re good.. have 2 kids. Yet hes brought it up in fights 1-2 times… he feels bad abt it later and apologizes, and obvs he loves and trusts his wife. But he never had ex’es/affairs.. no gf’s nothing.. it bothers him abt his wife…that one thing bothers him tho, enough to stay in his mind even after 8 ywars of marriage. She put it out there herself.. had she not, maybe it would be different.

The only problem with secrets is that they don’t remain secret forever, otherwise your solution is acceptable.