Physical Involvement

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Re: Physical Involvement

@ekumunng

The question was simple, the answer should be simple as well. By counter questioning you are making other party realize that you are hiding something since you have suddenly gone into defensive mode. On top of that you are overreacting and are portraying yourself as very clever which some people may see as cunningness.

And finally you finish the conversation like “na khaiden gay na khaiden dyan gay” meaning there won’t be a match if I’m not in the team; effectively portraying yourself as selfish person.

NOTE: above, ‘you’ means some Mr. 123 in another universe and not TLK. Plz don’t take it personal.

Now here is my scenario

Q. Did you ever sleep with anyone in the past?

A. It’s something I wanted to ask you as well, we should definitely discuss this to avoid any misunderstandings in future. We can have this discussion once we know each other bit more and if our families are happy to proceed further.

Now if the question comes again in the future, means that the person really wants to know.

I now have two choices:

1- use this question as excuse and walk away
2 - if I really into this rishta and find it suitable from every other angle then tell the truth and also ask the same question to that person.

You have a 3rd option; take that info and once married, bring it up in every fight with your spouse in the future and make life hell for both of you.