Physical Involvement

Iconoclast · April 24, 2015, 2:33pm

Re: Physical Involvement

So you’re calling Islam outdated?

Do whatever you want…doesn’t change what actually is forbidden for us does it?

And people who shy away from their past are not insecure…its actually wise and that’s why recommended to stay away from. They are pretty confident it will make no difference to their future and that’s why they prefer not to talk about it. Not SHY AWAY…prefer not to discuss. Shying away is hiding. This is not hiding…Allah asks that you maintain a sense of decorum by not being clumsy with your mouth and offending people with questions that will make them uncomfortable or hurt or worse…affect how you might view them for the rest of their life.

The thing is…many of you people cannot really comment on this…you’ve had ONE marriage and maybe some dark history here and there that NO ONE in their right mind will ever admit to. Like NO ONE because obviously it would make them a hypocrite. This applies to people who are honest and sincere but want to move on with their lives. Allah knows best…he knows all of our sins and intentions. If a convert can be reborn as a Muslim and forgiven by Allah…who are mere human beings to hold anything against anyone?

Insecurity is usually what people will call anything they don’t want to agree with or have issues with. No one is forcing this on you or anyone else. Do whatever you want but it still it is what it is. No denying that.

If your point is to be the last one to reply then you can go ahead and keep repeating same things over and over again. I said in my previous posts, If a person does not want to discuss his/her past, and would not answer such questions. On the other hand I find lying about it wrong. Sins are between Allah and person, lying to a person also involves another human. Lying to them is deception and I don’t think Islam allows it. Its the lying that I have been objecting to.