Re: Physical Involvement
A person who is secure, upright and has integrity will also have a past in some way, shape or form. Insecurity means lack of confidence in oneself. It has nothing to do with integrity or being an upright citizen.
If someone values piousness they can definitely look for someone who is the same, sure. But don’t judge that person’s piousness today with whatever they might have done yesterday because the two don’t always connect. And furthermore, since its discouraged to even ask…I cannot imagine why said pious person would ever dare go against such a recommendation. Their piety should be good for something, shouldn’t it? At least following the Islam they claim to follow?
Insecurity comes in many forms and shapes, those who want to shy away from their past are insecure too. The only way to judge a person today is to look at their past.