Physical Involvement

[Reha]

Re: Physical Involvement

@Iconoclast

I am not arguing about religion, or I would have brought up some religious qoutes. A person who is secure, upright and has integrity will not try to dodge others. Its the insecure one who’ll try to hide away.

My opinion is that if someone values piousness and has herself/himself been modest and expects his spouse to be the same, then its fine for him/her to seek one like that.

A person who is secure, upright and has integrity will also have a past in some way, shape or form. Insecurity means lack of confidence in oneself. It has nothing to do with integrity or being an upright citizen.

If someone values piousness they can definitely look for someone who is the same, sure. But don’t judge that person’s piousness today with whatever they might have done yesterday because the two don’t always connect. And furthermore, since its discouraged to even ask…I cannot imagine why said pious person would ever dare go against such a recommendation. Their piety should be good for something, shouldn’t it? At least following the Islam they claim to follow?