Re: Physical Involvement
Let’s get realistic for a second, no one goes around ‘confessing’ how many girls or boys they had slept with in front of strangers they’re meeting for the first or second time. I’m serious. Normal people don’t do that. But the question eventually and most naturally comes up in later discussion and at that time, I expect complete honesty. I don’t care what Mullahs say about this.
Whether a person should be rejected on such issues is individual’s choice or what’s the word - preference. I was told by others to respect other’s preference. But yes, most normal people without any strong beliefs or requirements are normal enough to use their own judgement and make a reasonable choice - I hate giving prescriptive advice.
Unless, I’m madly and hopelessly in love with someone or just desperate to settle down coz my age is going through the roof, I would not marry an ex alcoholic, ex gambler, smuggler, defaulter etc. Sorry, past does matter. How about instead of passing judgements and preaching sickly wishy washy pseudo-religious fluff, people respect other’s ultimate preference and decisions? Respect others and just be honest with them when they ask you something - simple as that.