Re: Physical Involvement
I don’t think anyone is saying what u seem to think, Jolie.. which is that if someone asks u “Have u done such-and-such thing in ur past?” And the person lies in response. No one is promoting lying… rather, that the question should not be posed in the first place. If u are planning ur future with someone, judge them based on what u see today… not an act committed in their past that has no bearing on anyone except the 2 who were involved (past relationships/intimacy)… obvs in cases of rape/abuse.. these are crimes where someone is being hurt, they must be told.
That’s your opinion, the question might be important for some people. Present is just a moment, its the past that makes a person, and no one has seen the future.