Physical intimacy without emotional intimacy

Lifestyle Relationships
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:mirch:

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She doesn't need to be 'comfortable'. She's not supposed to say no.

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Yeah, i think it's mostly for baby-making.

As for the woman being comfortable, I mean...if he treats her like crap on the normal, what different measures would he take in the bedroom? =/ The woman is supposed to submit without saying anything, sad but true.

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hahahahah dats a funny way to explain it…

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ummm just curious to know ... i hear alot of elder people saying that in a loveless marrige or the type stated above ...the relation get better (he starts to like her emotionally ) once the couple gets kids ...is it true and if it is den to wat extend

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True for many many marriages. I know a couple who got married,had a baby and divorced all with in little more than a year. In that one year of marriage most of it was them fighting nasty. I mean bad stuff.
A guy not goona wait when there is a perfectly halal beewi in the bedroom, emotional intimacy or not. Sickening yes but true..

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The men hate is too obvious.
Just sayin.

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No idea whether its true or not, but if it doesn’t get any better even after they have kids, then it’s usually the kids who would have to suffer as well! :bummer:

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I agree wth u

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A couple of questions:

  1. The region that is now called 'South Asia', between 1850AD and 1950AD, what do you think would be the percentage of couples that got married because they 'loved' each other?

  2. What is the population of that region now?

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Sorry dude I have no issues with men. If you see hate then all I can say is that truth hurts...

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Suggesting a man will go about quenching his physical desires while being completely aware his wife doesn't want it? I'm sorry but that comes across as nothing but a very ridiculous generalization.

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Generalization comes from observation and this thread is actually based upon OPs observation of same phenomenon.
You probably won't do it but for every you there are 1000 guys who will.

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LMAO! This is the true beauty of Life1. Throwing in a ridiculous generalization and then defending it like its the holy grail.

This is like a bloke saying 'Hijabis are sluts', and when someone points out how ridiculous this generalization is, he goes 'naah you ain't one, but there are a 1000 others that are'. And that too could be based on his observation of the 'same phenomenon'.

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So I suppose you guys waited to have sex before you developed emotional intimacy with your wives. How long did it take you?
Go have a poll in real world and ask guys would they have sex without emotional intimacy and then come and refute my "generalization"
I also think there are many many hijabis who are not as pure as they want the world to believe. They may be doing hijab because they have to...thus I do not make a generalization that oh hijabis or a guy with beard must be very pious ppl.

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WOW. You know what, I am not even going to respond to that. Not really worth it. But yeh, you definitely are amusing.

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Whatever....
I guess everyone in this thread is wrong who say that sex without emotional intimacy is very common but if you don't want to believe then don't I don't care.

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Did it ever occur to anyone that maybe...just maybe...the couple does have some actual good moments? that there are some goodt imes between them and that's why they have sex?

can we please break out of these stupid stereotypes that a man is a horny beast and his wife is always the "victim"?

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you want life1 to die??? what the hell is wrong with you?????????????????????????