Exactly. Ppl need to realise marriage is supposed to be an intimate relationship, not merely a normal everyday friendship. Those who marry a person with absolutely zero attraction or spark in this day and age are more than likely going to run into problems later. Girls, Do NOT put yourselves into these situations!! It is not smart to step into what is prob going to be a loveless/dead/marriage of convenience, to kid urselves into thinking everything is ok or to do it to try and keep family members happy. They are not the ones who are going to have to be sleeping with hubby, are they??