Re: Physical Attraction
I have a somewhat related issue, and I didn't want to start a new thread yet.
I'm newly married, it hasn't been two months just yet.
My husband is alhamdulillah a great guy. <3
I don't find myself physically attracted to him at all. At all. In the first couple of weeks we made out, and tried to consummate the marriage a couple of times ... I always felt very, very uncomfortable with it all. I don't know if it's because Ramadan started the same week we moved into our apartment, or something else - but we've just not been intimate for almost a month now.
I don't know what to do, and it's weighing on my mind a lot. I don't like seeing him frustrated about it (and he clearly is), but at the same time I can't make myself just ... want him that way.
Any advice?
Maybe I should mention, I'm a generally introverted person, and I find it annoying when he calls me weird nicknames and asks me what I'm thinking or tweaks my nose. He knows I find it annoying but he does it anyway.
We get along very well, I just don't think we have a lot in common. :-(