If its an arranged marriage, then I want a ‘goodlooking’, educated, fianacially stable dude… and ofcourse I should have to have that feeling for him.
If its the love of my life then looks , money are of no importance. Only emotional attraction, chemistry, … ah! this thread is indeed depressing as someone mentioned, I shld stop here lest I say something…
toba toba ye kis kisam ka bayhooda sawal hae larki
vat do u mean by attraction haan? u shud only get attracted after ur shaadi and shaadi se pehle is tarhaan ye khayalat foran toba karo larki aur ro k maghfirat kee dua maango
aaj kal kee larkiyaan sab sharam o haya baych k kha gayi haen ye bhe khayal naheen karteen ke hamari umar kee un kee dadiaan bhee aati haen in dhaagoon mein
aur aik hamara zamana tha jab hum young hua kerte thay larkiaan burkay pehna karti theen aur nigahein neechay rakha kerti thee aur larkon ke baaray mein baat tak naheen kerti theen aur aik aaj kal
Don't make me out to be something I'm not! I honestly and truly believe one should not date/have boyfriends prior to marriage - something which I live by.
But honestly you can't help meeting people, and what if you meet someone and think well ok maybe I could marry him and you try to get to know him and things dont work out? That is no fault of mine!
And don't tell me you haven't come across someone and thought, hmmm he's quite noice!
And I won't forget that thread of yours about that Uncle who you admire so much. :p
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*Originally posted by cat-woman: *
I find that when I'm emotionally attracted to someone, they don't turn me on physically and when the physical attraction is there, they don't turn my brain on. What's with that? I mean, why can't somebody rock me as in have good looks and a sharp brain? Is it so difficult? I mean, I know that guy's can only think with one head at a time, but I know I'm not like that, atleast I hope so!
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Ur Explanation is the Difference Between LOVE and LUST :D