welllll, i guess an ugly man can't get any uglier, he can only get better looking (in ur eyes, of course). When you're emotionally attracted to someone, looks are secondary. And when ur doing the tunna tunna..just close ur eyes..hahah. Nevermind, NO ONE UNDERSTANDS ME.
I should think that when you fall in love the emotional attraction is strong and then even if that person is the ugliest person in the world he'd be physically attractive to you..:)
you sleeping peeples 
All dreams bout the right one etc. etc. blablabla,
All Rubish and crap :halo:
Lemme wake you up, there is no prince on the white horse, nor is there a princess that wants to be rescued,
and Catty, what you feel is normal, I think, cuz when physiciall atraction, the brain activity gets less and the hormones start racing,
and the other way around
Re: physical attraction vs. emotional attraction
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I find that when I'm emotionally attracted to someone, they don't turn me on physically and when the physical attraction is there, they don't turn my brain on. What's with that? I mean, why can't somebody rock me as in have good looks and a sharp brain? Is it so difficult? I mean, I know that guy's can only think with one head at a time, but I know I'm not like that, atleast I hope so!
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Aaaaaaaaaaaaaw, poor little catty. :)
Ditto :k:
So true…
Stop worrying catty…
It will happen when ts meant to happen…
subher ka phul meetha hota hai ;)
WOAHAH, hold it right there guys. I'm not desperate, you make it sound as though I'm just dying to meet someone and hook it up. These things take time, and for the next couple of years my life is full anyways. I was just wondering you know! And like I said before, I'm not willing to settle for less and if I don't find the right one who fulfills all that I want, I don't want anything at all. It's all or nothing.
hmcq, what are you saying? sar ke uper say guzar gaya :khujaing my head:
oh thanks B in B
I join you
Re: physical attraction vs. emotional attraction
Check with doctors if both brains are capable of working together (emotional and physical). May be when you are emotionally attracted you CAN’T be turned on and when you are turned ON (physically) your brain stops working hence no emotional attraction!!
Is this thread depressing or what? Cat... :-|
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Lemme wake you up, there is no prince on the white horse,
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you dream squasher..
Catz... a wise person told me..
firts look at a man, if you see you are physically attracted to him, then see his heart(as in if he's kind etc).. then see his islam (prayers etc)..
the more you know the person the better..
Not everyone's perfect, its those imperfections which makes us who we are.. so yea ..good luck..
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firts look at a man, if you see you are physically attracted to him, then see his heart(as in if he's kind etc).. then see his islam (prayers etc)..
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Isnt is supposed to be Islam, heart and then physical attraction?
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hmcq, what are you saying? sar ke uper say guzar gaya :khujaing my head:
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Someone said matches are made in heaven and hence we will meet the "one" when it is time. Since there are ugly people and there are good looking people then, we should not be bothered about the other person since we have already been fated to meet this person, be they ugly or good looking.
Also since it is fated, we do not really need to take care about ourselves or even bother looking to get married as when it is supposed to happen, it will happen.
Make sense now?
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Isnt is supposed to be Islam, heart and then physical attraction?
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No i think attraction comes first.. thats why it is sunnah to meet before marriage, to see if there is attraction or not.
Isnt there a hadees about marrying a women for her religion? and the rest shall come? The seeing part talks about, she been pleasing to the eye so that you do not get distracted elsewhere. However, the Islam part is considered more important. Otherwise it would be better to marry a non-muslim model, religiously speaking.
For me its more important to be attracted to someeone emotionally and then it really doesnt make much difference if that person is not very much good looking.Its not that difficult to find good looking people,its really difficult to find someone with positive approach and some one with a kind nature and similar thoughts as you have towards life.
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Isnt there a hadees about marrying a women for her religion? and the rest shall come? The seeing part talks about, she been pleasing to the eye so that you do not get distracted elsewhere. However, the Islam part is considered more important. Otherwise it would be better to marry a non-muslim model, religiously speaking.
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Yeah but the Focus in this hadith is on Men and what they should look for, when choosing a wife.
It's not for women, when choosing a husband.
Ok in that case is the woman allowed to marry a hindu whos pleasing to the eye? The same rule applies to women, religion, inner beauty and then outer beauty. The rest of the stuff is add ons from customs and culture.