Physical abuse possible?

best_friend · November 19, 2012, 5:47pm

Re: Physical abuse possible?

I apologise in advance if I come across as nasty.

The guy has known his sister and mother much longer than you. A guy that puts a hand on his mother esp and his sister, I am sorry, but is a disgrace. A mother’s place is above everyone else. Fact.

Second, if he violated the most sacred relationship i.e. hittinghis mother then I am sorry you are setting yourself up for failures. ‘‘My husband abuses me, like i knew he did so before marriage to his mum and sister but I cant really leave him what do I do’’. Lets hope we don’t see a thread like that in the future because then YOU’LL be the only to blame. The other side (him) has shown you how he is, now it is upto you to react.

Secondly, cousins. Lol. Desis have such a misconception that somehow cousin marriages infer some massive loyalty. The fact is in a normal marriage if you separate you lose your inlaws and husband/wife. In a cousin marriage you lose inlaws, spouse, and you lose a chacha/taya/khala relationship and inadvertently cause a lot of friction with other members of your family and in this case when people separate their own family ends up hating them. So just because he’s a cousin you think it somehow makes him more trustworthy? That statement is bizarre because he’s hit his own sister and mother and betrayed one of the most sacred trusts with his own blood yet you still think he’s trustworthy?

As I said sorry for being harsh but well.

Not at all Shak, you’re not being nasty or harsh