Physical abuse possible?

[Nina85]

Re: Physical abuse possible?

@best_friend

Im engaged and my fiance had a fight with his elder sister, and he hit her. Later on I found out he even hit his younger sister and even pushed aside his mother during one of the fights…that’s rough. My parents know about it but they din’t react to it, dint even say anything.
I might have ignored it if things were going ideally between me and him. But then Im a great pessimist and I know that I tend to get overly-negative at times. That’s why I never know when to really take things seriously and when Im just being negative. So I tend to ignore red flags.
There has been so much going on that I dont know what to say and what not to say…I know I should atleast share some more details for anybody to help me but honestly Im feeling too upset to talk about anything right now

So he hits/abuses all women around him basically? Umm..yes something tells me that chances are, he could one day turn and do the same to you. I dont care what they were fighting about..there is never a need to hit, espcially not push and shove your own mother.