So my friend is in Rishta talks with a girl and he recently started texting her and talking on the phone. They have met couple of times within in like parents approval and stuff. So he’s talking to her and slight hints lead to full on sexting and phone sex. Now he’s wondering if the girl is of questionable behavior. That why would she allow a guy whom she just met sext and phonex so easily. What are your thoughts?
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Now I am wondering if your friend is of questionable behavior… 
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yes, your friend is dhood ka dhulahuwa..it’s the evil girl…dump the besharam wench
ever hear of the saying, “It takes two to tango”? 
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bet he didn’t see THAT coming!!!
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to begin with, what is wrong with both in Ramadan acting crazy. To me both are losers.
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dhood.. besharam… tango dance … Chai… Ye batao roza kyon nai rakha?? 
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So my friend is in Rishta talks with a girl and he recently started texting her and talking on the phone. They have met couple of times within in like parents approval and stuff. So he's talking to her and slight hints lead to full on sexting and phone sex. Now he's wondering if the girl is of questionable behavior. That why would she allow a guy whom she just met sext and phonex so easily. What are your thoughts?
Did she force him to sext her or have phone sex with her? Lol, I doubt it! If she is of questionable character, what does that make him?
If he is insecure about what she may or may not have done in the past, he should move on instead of marry her and then make his and her life miserable.
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Why is your friend telling you such personal bed time stories about someone who is about to be his wife (if all went well)? He is displaying the same behavior as her, if he has any doubt he should move on instead both of them will suffer for nothing.
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So my friend is in Rishta talks with a girl and he recently started texting her and talking on the phone. They have met couple of times within in like parents approval and stuff. So he's talking to her and slight hints lead to full on sexting and phone sex. Now he's wondering if the girl is of questionable behavior. That why would she allow a guy whom she just met sext and phonex so easily. What are your thoughts?
I am assuming that your friend's phone is a advance phone with "auto sexting" feature and he is not doing sexting himself.
so is the girl is doing it DURING roza or AFTER iftar? this is crucial in determining how evil she is.
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I want to slap your friend+the girl then slap you for posting this here.
3 slaps Thha-Thha-Thha
@Southie
Please advise on the correct spelling for Thha-Thha-Thha if needed.
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Shouldn’t it be “thup thup thup” ?
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Thaa Thaa Thaa
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Shouldn't it be "thup thup thup" ?
I'm not Sultan Rahi
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Umm I said Southie correct karay 
Thha for you too
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I actually wanted to click the " like " button. There’s no undo feature I can discern, oh well!
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so is the girl is doing it DURING roza or AFTER iftar? this is crucial in determining how evil she is.
What difference does it make whether they sexted during roza or after iftar...when merely talking to one another without any sexual activity is also prohibited.
I have heard that guys will sometimes "test" girls. And in assessing her he didn't have to go this far to where he crossed all of his limits as well. If she failed the test, what does it say about him? Will he dismiss his actions simply because he's a guy? Wow, just wow. :(
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Right, Gentlemen and Lady. Why is everyone thappar marring me? It's ramadan we shouldn't even be sexting let alone looking at women. Matter of fact lets lock away women. Fine? Hmmm? GOD
Ok dude check it out. So they sexted big whoop, wanna fight bout it? No? Didn't think so
Back to reality. Ok so they sexted, I mean the girl is very "Chipku" type according to my friend. Hey man I'm just a liaison in this. He asks me to posts stuff and get you guys' opinions and I do so. I'm no angel or angle or however the hell you spell it. But I know that I shan't be sexting a fine lady. I shan't.
Now it begs the question, why would a girl put so much trust in a guy and allow him to do sexting after only talking for like 2 days? I think the girl is extremely naive and she's being taking advantage of by my friend's inability to do anything during rozas. Do you think that he should move on or not?
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Both sound pretty beghairat to me. Match made in heaven.
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Now it begs the question, why would a girl put so much trust in a guy and allow him to do sexting after only talking for like 2 days? I think the girl is extremely naive and she's being taking advantage of by my friend's inability to do anything during rozas. Do you think that he should move on or not?
Nothing in your original post indicated that she had phone sex with him only after 2 days of talking to him. Should have mentioned that lil' detail earlier. Yes, 2 days is too soon. But it was "soon" for both of them. It was "wrong" for both of them. Why is the person who "allows" a wrong to happen judged more harshly than the person who "initiated" a wrong? Why is the latter worse than the former? And did she become a "chipku" after the sexting? Sexual intimacy affects the genders differently. While it's easier for guys to remove themselves from it afterwards, women tend to get more attached as a consequence. And now he's contemplating moving on from her? Bahut khoob. Do something very intimate with a girl and then when satiated and bored...judge her more severely for something that you're equally guilty of....and then just ditch the clingy "chipku."
Was it your friend who initiated the sexting? If so....ask him with what intentions did he initiate/participate in it? At that time did he justify his actions to himself (and maybe even the girl) by thinking that "oh it's okay to do this because I see her as my wife anyway".....or ..."I am seriously considering marrying her"...? And so after that nasha wears off...suddenly she's not worthy or good enough...? If she was "easy" what is he? If she was weak, what is he? If she displayed lack of control, what about him? If she's a guneghaar...what about him? As wrong as she was, she's fool enough to think that such intimacy warrants giving seriousness to the rishta....whereas to him it's now something that can be easily moved on from without a backward glance.
Yes, tell your friend to move on.....because it's bad enough when a girl loses her own self-respect....it's worse when the guy no longer has any respect or regard for her either.