Personality Traits & Matchmaking

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Re: Personality Traits & Matchmaking

@Mamzie

I often wonder the same…how can you judge a person based on first and only meeting? But then meeting more than once is perhaps not Islamic either and in fact there is a condition that u can’t meet alone…have to be accompanied by someone and I know personally i wud not be able to really communicate and get to know my possible partner while sitting among people. Maybe its just me but i do wonder about how this whole process can be done while remaining within the boundaries of Islam.

Good point Mamzie!..i recently have through this. Both families met. And Girl’s bhabhi took us to another room..where we chatted for 10 mins. Ya..and talked about basic basic stuff. And after that day..i told my mom to call her mom to ask her..if it is ok..i can talk to her on the phone. Ya..her mom didn’t like that idea..she goes, my name mutmain nahi hua kia?. My mom was like (wtf). And i am kinda guy…where i like to talk on the phone. I hate emails..whatsapping these stuff. This is serious stuff. I mean hey..i would be ok with meeting up one on one..don’t care..but i was trying to be respectful to girl and her family by asking her parents indirectly. So ya…how do you go about it. I think phone is the only way!