personal trainer

[Muzna]

Re: personal trainer

a better understanding of what “judgemental” means might be in order…

[Muzna]

Re: personal trainer

@Iconoclast

If you were the only client, but apparently there are plenty who will not mind hiring her services. So it simply does not matter what you think.

if the trainer has other clients wouldn’t this mean that people are okay with her being the way she is?
or maybe the gym just isn’t up to par.

are there any other trainers at this gym?

[shugsarf]

@Iconoclast:10022307

If you were the only client, but apparently there are plenty who will not mind hiring her services. So it simply does not matter what you think.

And what if I tell you people do have issues with her? And I have nothing to do with her because she is not my instructor. Im expressing my opinion based on facts. THAT IS IT

[shugsarf]

@Muzna:10022314

[quote="“Iconoclast, post:5, topic:313633"”]

If you were the only client, but apparently there are plenty who will not mind hiring her services. So it simply does not matter what you think.

if the trainer has other clients wouldn’t this mean that people are okay with her being the way she is?
or maybe the gym just isn’t up to par.

are there any other trainers at this gym?
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She replaced a trainer who recently got married. And yes this is what ive been trying to tell you guys that im not the only one who has issues with an overweight trainer. There are other people who are not happy with her

[Muzna]

Re: personal trainer

@shugsarf

She replaced a trainer who recently got married. And yes this is what ive been trying to tell you guys that im not the only one who has issues with an overweight trainer. There are other people who are not happy with her

well…not being the only one that has issues with an overweight trainer doesn’t necessarily make you right in your position just like many people differing with your opinion does not make your opinion wrong.

rest assured that if enough people are not happy with her services, the organization will replace her in due time.

[Iconoclast]

Re: personal trainer

@shugsarf

And what if I tell you people do have issues with her? And I have nothing to do with her because she is not my instructor. Im expressing my opinion** based on facts.** THAT IS IT

I have yet to see a “fact”.

[Monk]

Re: personal trainer

@shugsarf

Ive been working out like crazy for about 14 months now and have lost 77lbs. She never trained me but i saw her training others. She was having trouble moving herself plus she had difficulty breathing. But still people are trying to prove me wrong thinking im being judgmental, which is sad.

You sure, it not a mirror you are looking at ?

[Jolie]

Re: personal trainer

Well I wouldn’t worry about anyone’s weight.

But I’ve always wondered why some of the most creative and prolific fashion designers have horrible dressing sense (or none at all). It fascinating.

[TLK]

@shugsarf:10022061

And guys im not asking for a Victoria’s secret model as a trainer.

But I am:(

[Muzna]

Re: personal trainer

@TLK

But I am:(

If you are ready to “train” we’ll find you a Victoria’s Secret model as a trainer.
Begum say pooch lain.

[TLK]

@Iconoclast:10022142

Its about the services delivered. An obese cardiologist can diagnose your heart condition, can open a blocked artery, can repair a malformed heart with a wire, can revive a dead heart, can put a disorderly heart beat into order. None that can be done by Arnold Schwarzenegger (if I am spelling his name correctly). Trainers not just motivators.

A butt ugly woman can produce a healthy baby as effectively as an Angelina Jolie lookalike, but all red blooded men in their right mind would pick the second option.

It’s not just about the service delivered.

[TLK]

@Muzna:10022403

[quote="“TLK, post:42, topic:313114"”]

But I am:(

If you are ready to “train” we’ll find you a Victoria’s Secret model as a trainer.
Begum say pooch lain.
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Sheikh Shabab clearly says in his book “midlife crisis”, that when it comes to hiring services of a VS model, wife’s permission is not required.

[shugsarf]

@Iconoclast:10022348

[quote="“shugsarf, post:17, topic:313697"”]

And what if I tell you people do have issues with her? And I have nothing to do with her because she is not my instructor. Im expressing my opinion** based on facts.** THAT IS IT

I have yet to see a “fact”.
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Wow!!! Im done arguing with you.

[shugsarf]

@Monk:10022367

[quote="“shugsarf, post:5, topic:313365"”]

Ive been working out like crazy for about 14 months now and have lost 77lbs. She never trained me but i saw her training others. She was having trouble moving herself plus she had difficulty breathing. But still people are trying to prove me wrong thinking im being judgmental, which is sad.

You sure, it not a mirror you are looking at ?
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[Scherbatsky]

Re: personal trainer

@shugsarf

I saw a personal trainer in my gym today she was so overwieght and teaching others how to lose weight .i dont know how did i keep my mouth shut and walk away. A overweight personal trainer is totally unacceptable . Its not that im being judgmental but a personal trainer is supposed to be fit and in a good shape and should be a good example for others, if my personal trainer encourages me to eat healthy and workout everyday my first question to her will be why dont you do all this before your advice me.

What’s your take on that

I will not pay a fat person to be my personal trainer, agreed on that. :k:

[Le_Pakistan]

Re: personal trainer

@shugsarf

I saw a personal trainer in my gym today she was so overwieght and teaching others how to lose weight .i dont know how did i keep my mouth shut and walk away. A overweight personal trainer is totally unacceptable . Its not that im being judgmental but a personal trainer is supposed to be fit and in a good shape and should be a good example for others, if my personal trainer encourages me to eat healthy and workout everyday my first question to her will be why dont you do all this before your advice me.

What’s your take on that

1. It’s good that you kept your mouth shut, because it’s none of your business. Remember how it hurt you when your family member made that nasty comment about your weight? Keep that in mind every time you feel the urge to state ‘facts’ to others regarding their weight.

2. You think it’s unacceptable that an overweight person is a personal trainer then the solution is simple: you don’t have to take their services.

3. Apparently other people find her effective/good enough to train them, so she must be doing something right.

4. There could be many factors as to why she is overweight. Doesn’t have anything to do with lack of discipline.

5. You are being judgemental. Because you are assuming all kind of things (which you call facts) only by looking at her appearance.

[shugsarf]

@Le Pakistan:10023082

[quote="“shugsarf, post:46, topic:311500"”]

I saw a personal trainer in my gym today she was so overwieght and teaching others how to lose weight .i dont know how did i keep my mouth shut and walk away. A overweight personal trainer is totally unacceptable . Its not that im being judgmental but a personal trainer is supposed to be fit and in a good shape and should be a good example for others, if my personal trainer encourages me to eat healthy and workout everyday my first question to her will be why dont you do all this before your advice me.

What’s your take on that

1. It’s good that you kept your mouth shut, because it’s none of your business. Remember how it hurt you when your family member made that nasty comment about your weight? Keep that in mind every time you feel the urge to state ‘facts’ to others regarding their weight.

2. You think it’s unacceptable that an overweight person is a personal trainer then the solution is simple: you don’t have to take their services.

3. Apparently other people find her effective/good enough to train them, so she must be doing something right.

4. There could be many factors as to why she is overweight. Doesn’t have anything to do with lack of discipline.

5. You are being judgemental. Because you are assuming all kind of things (which you call facts) only by looking at her appearance.
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You should have gone through all the posts before posting your comment and being “judgmental” I’ve already mentioned about people having issues with her training so yeah its not only me.. ive been meeting her for 3 days now and ive bee really nice to her didn’t say anything mean but I certainly have issues with overweight trainers and ive given plenty of reasons and FACTS aswell I would never say that on her face cause that could hurt her, I would motivate her instead cause I know how it feels when someone ridicules you for your appearance..

[Muzna]

Re: personal trainer

@shugsarf

You should have gone through all the posts before posting your comment and being “judgmental” I’ve already mentioned about people having issues with her training so yeah its not only me.. ive been meeting her for 3 days now and ive bee really nice to her didn’t say anything mean but I certainly have issues with overweight trainers and ive given plenty of reasons and FACTS aswell I would never say that on her face cause that could hurt her, I would motivate her instead cause I know how it feels when someone ridicules you for your appearance..

wait a second…if you disagree with something, that’s not judgemental but if someone else takes exception to your point of view then that’s judgemental?

[shugsarf]

@Muzna:10023374

[quote="“shugsarf, post:12, topic:302309"”]

You should have gone through all the posts before posting your comment and being “judgmental” I’ve already mentioned about people having issues with her training so yeah its not only me.. ive been meeting her for 3 days now and ive bee really nice to her didn’t say anything mean but I certainly have issues with overweight trainers and ive given plenty of reasons and FACTS aswell I would never say that on her face cause that could hurt her, I would motivate her instead cause I know how it feels when someone ridicules you for your appearance..

wait a second…if you disagree with something, that’s not judgemental but if someone else takes exception to your point of view then that’s judgemental?
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There is a thing called sarcasm? Have you ever heard of it.

[Muzna]

Re: personal trainer

@shugsarf

There is a thing called sarcasm? Have you ever heard of it.

nope…enlighten me.