Hi their people.
I am in a dliemna at the moment. My friend Wasim invited me to his friend Amir’s birthday. I know Amir in the sense that I have met him a few times before, and regard him as a friend, but not a close one. More of a hi bye friend. Kher, he is a very nice guy, 24 yrs old. The get together was at his house, with his mom and sister there, his fiancee/girlfriend, and some of their close friends. I didn’t know anyone their apart from my friend Wasim, so I sat their just mingling as one does.
I came across his sister, very pretty, well spoken, and generally a nice girl. Now one can normally tell when he is liked by a girl, or when he likes a girl. So, there was a certain conection there. However, I respected the fact that Amir is a friend, and I strictly did not cross any boundaries that I should not have. We had a nice conversation about her college, as she has recently come from Karachi to study. She is finishing off her A levels. I am finishing of University.
That night I left the party expecting nothing more to happen about the situation. 2 days later, I got a call, its was Amir’s sister’s friend. Her friend was telling me how Amir’s sister likes me a lot, and is very embarrassed of the situation etc etc… Eventually I spoke to Amir’s sister, and we came to the conlcusion, that we both like each other very much, want to set up a good platform for the future. However, as I know her older brother, I said ke I didn’t want to be friends with her behind his back, and when the time was right, we would tell him, that we met again through mutual friends, and have become good friends. Her brother would have said yes. All would have been well.
However, just two days before I was going to tell him that I bumped into his sister at a dinner, and we became friends, he came back from uni, and went though his sister’s phone. He found text messages that I had wriiten to her. Most of them were just innocent friendly txts, but two of them were slightly flirty. He matched the number to mine, and now obviously, as any brother would, has gone mad in rage.
He told Wasim straight away (our mutual friend), and Wasim told me off badly, saying that what I did was disgusting and wrong. However, my Niyaat, intentions were honest, and i did mean to tell him. Before I got the chance the **** hit the fan. I intend to call him in a few days once he has calmed down. However, i am the culprit here, and dont know what to do. Me and his sister like each other verty much, and dont want to destroy a friendship due to this mishap. However, I dont thnk its likely he is going to consent to us being friends.
I have a reputation for going out with a lot of women in the past which obviously he doesn’t like. However, I am 100% serious as I have done what i wanted to do over the last few years, I have matured in the past 12 months and will be graduating soon.
Pls , I need advice what to do, I have not been in this situation before, and feel very bad.
By the way, the names used above are all false. Thank you.
BB 
sorry hun, inshallah it’ll work out. I think you said it yourself. Just give it a few days and try to talk to him/them. And if you’re really serious, like marriage serious, talk to your parents and have them talk to hers. It’ll just push the sincerity 
