Re: People who hate Desis the most are....
...Desis themselves.
I am amazed how repulsed we (desis) are by other desis.
This thread is of course inspired by the "Top 3 likes/dislikes about your home town" thread where many people are listing 'not many desis' or 'too many desis' in their hometown as likes and dislikes respectively.
Each one of us (desis) seem to think that "we" are somehow better than other desis. Even in the workplace I find desis are more respectful, polite and professional when attending to goras but will take their desi co-workers for granted.
btw, I am not taking the high ground here.....I also get pissed by other Desis very easily.....for example I often catch myself muttering 'saala desi' when a desi car driver cuts me off on the road....as if it has something to do with the person's 'desi' upbringing.
So my questions are : (1) Why do we hate our own breed so much (2) Why do we think we are somehow removed from other desis and therefore should not be equated with them.
Comments welcome.
Bohat zabardast question kia hai. Thanks kay itna achcha sawal kia hai.
Mera naheen khiaal kay hum hate kartay hain apnay hi logon say. Haan na pasand kar saktay hain unki harkaton ki wajah say.
Hate karnay walay apnay hi logon say bohat kum log hon gay.
Main to bilkul bhi hate naheen karti apnay logon say balkay her kisi say ghairon say bhi naheen. Haan mohabbat karti hoon sub say no matter kay wo achchay hain kay buray. Hate karti hoon sirf unki buraion say.
Hum sub logon ki buraion ki wajah say hi hate kartay hain aisay hi naheen kioon kay hum pagal naheen hain.
Aap kay sawal ka jawab hum apnay logon ki buraion ki wajah say hate kartay hain. Laikin saray desis say kisi aik ya kai ki buraion ki wajah say karna intehai ahmaqana soch hai.
Wo bura ho sakta hai ya kuch buray ho saktay hain per saray buraay naheen ho saktay khuwah wo par'hay likhay hon kay unpar'h ya par'hay likhay jahil.
2. Main naheen samajhti kay hamain apnay hi logon say naheen milana chahyay kay hum unsay alaga hain. Hum alag hona bhi chahain to naheen ho saktay kioon kay hamara sara undaz sub kuch waisa hi hai yahan rah kar bhi undaz aur adatain naheen jateen. Haan in mahol main rah kar thor'i changing ya tameez ya kuch aur cheezain seekh latain hain to "BADLAY BALAY SAY YAR LAGTAIN HAIN' per wo badalna bhi itna badalna naheen hota kay hum main aur un main aik lakeer hi kheench dalay kay ham alag hain.
Yay bhi is wajah say hai kay hum Na to pooray goray kay rung main rung saktay hain kay wo hamain pasand naheen. Na apnon say jaisay mukummul tor par rah patay han is tarha hum adhay teetar adhay batair ho jatain hain.
Hum kitnay bhi goron ka undaz ya libaas ya accent apna lain goray hamain apnon main say naheen manain gay aur na hi hum bun sakain goray to phir farq kaisa, phir khud ko un say alaihaida samajhna kaisa.
Apni ahmaqana soch hai sirf khud ko alag samajhna.
); aside from that my genes, my background, my identitiy is TOTALLY different from them.
. Maybe its wrong, but those are just honest feelings of mine.
