:D I talked my fiancee into the whole pen thing. Yes he thinks i am totally insane but has agreed.
OMG I never thought the malvi will pull out his own pen - something else to worry about. I will have to get my brother to have a word.
Fireworks are no insane - I wanted them for my walima but because of the travel distance for my family we have to have it in the day. I am well gutted.