Paying for wedding expenses as charity

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Re: Paying for wedding expenses as charity

@sarmad786

Its not cultural thing, its religion who has also a duty incumbent on the parents to get their daughters married off when they reach adulthood .
Only daughters have this right over their parents. Sons have been commanded to acquire material means to maintain the living. They should not become the burden on the shoulders of their responsibilities.
The parents spend money at the marriage of their daughters, but it does not mean that they should spend beyond their economic capacity nor mean that they should run under the debts for meeting the expenses of their daughter’s marriage.

There is no religious basis for this whatsoever. Most of us girls are getting educated prior to marriage now, and it’s a smart decision, one which you will likely take up too when you have daughters and it finally dawns on you that you’d rather have her independent and safely maintaining her own life until the right guy comes along vs. marrying her off to the first guy with no security plan (no education, no job, no back up options in case the guy turns out to be a total troll)…

So when you start hearing stories of girls getting screwed over by men looking for visas, or men who cheat on their wives, or men who come across as religious when they’re not, or men who lie about their age, or men who lie about their jobs and education…you’ll do everything to make sure your daughter doesn’t end up on the street starving in the event she has to leave her husband (or he dies, etc).