I wasn't talking about THIS girl specifically, it was moreso directed to the mentality of men and their families and why on earth this kind of stupidness exists.
And I agree, this girl is completely responsible and really shouldn't complain. Get off your behind, get divorced, and get a job... But she's too lazy and/or values material goods over seeing her family. Eh different strokes..
getting a divorce would be that easy in this situation? in all other ways, he is typically loving...well, at least that's what he shows on facebook.... a rosy marriage. Until she told me all this. And the way he talks to her in private...
I had sorta picked up on that he's not the type that respects his wife as an equal....
But then I look at my parents. My dad didn't let my mom drive for like 3 years, and she was stuck at home, fuming that she was so locked in. Then finally he started opening up slowly and slowly, and eventually became a staunch feminist. (he has two daughters, that might have contributed)....so yeah, sometimes the guy who loves you doesn't do everything perfectly, doesn't say everything perfectly...