Re: Paying For Things
If your hubby did this to you, would you leave him? Or would you say…hm…he’s a doc, he makes enough for both of us, and i’d rather not fight it.
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A lot of women would, in exchange for shelter, clothes, nice clothes at that, and to save face in their community, would NOT go for a divorce in this situation. It’s a career, so what?
And it’s not black and white. No one outright said “nooo, you can’t do what you want”.
It was more like finding excuses to put it off. Not this year, dear, this isn’t a good year. Another year gone by, aisa karo ke do a little research here and there, but we need you at home, maybe you can try next year…another year gone by and “Well you might not get a spot this year, why dont you do another year of research and then see what happens”.
Next thing you know half a decade is gone. 