Paying for Stuff

[redvelvet]

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With immediate family paying for things, I feel more comfortable (though I usually take care of it myself). I feel more uncomfortable with others (male or female) paying for me…not to the point where I can’t get over it…but I feel a bit awkward as I don’t really have that expectation of them.

[Niksik]

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@Mad_Hatter

Ladies, how comfortable are you with a guy paying for your meal/shopping/coffee? Obviously it varies from situation to situation and your relationship with the guy, but to what extent would you let them pay?

Guys how comfortable are you with a woman paying for your meal/coffee/shopping/trainers? Do you think it’s a question of pride that you pay for your own things? Again, it’s a different issue if it’s your wife/partner - how about your mums, sisters, daughters even? Or just female colleagues offering to buy your lunch etc?

I’m very comfortable with it

[TLK]

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I used to think that ‘going dutch’ is some sexual thing.

[Decent_6Chora]

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@TLK

I used to think that ‘going dutch’ is some sexual thing.

No wonder you used to pray NAFILS with taubah astaghfar after every dine out with friends

Just wondering what did u use to think about ‘amreeeekan system’ back home

[Niksik]

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@TLK

I used to think that ‘going dutch’ is some sexual thing.

[ShahreyarKhan]

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kaam kay topics start kiya kero kasam say

[sweefs]

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@TLK

I used to think that ‘going dutch’ is some sexual thing.

HAHAHAHAHAHAH!

and no, i tend to not let anyone pay for me. for antyhing.

[DeshPremi]

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Will half and half go

-DP

[Xtron]

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@Mad_Hatter

Guys how comfortable are you with a woman paying for your meal/coffee/shopping/trainers? Do you think it’s a question of pride that you pay for your own things? Again, it’s a different issue if it’s your wife/partner - how about your mums, sisters, daughters even? Or just female colleagues offering to buy your lunch etc?

I am not comfortable with women of my family paying. If i go out with them..i pay for it regardless of they have a job or would want to pay for it.
When i went out with women..then we pay for ourselves. Now there are female friends..which i pay for them usually.. or they would by themselves. Depends on situation of course.

[LucyMay]

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@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

thankoo jii…your hubby is a lucky man, indeed! biwi ho to aisii varna ho hii na! hai na?

LoL, that was the pre-shaadi me

[CEO1]

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^
Now she’s the gold digger type.

I joke

[KKF]

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@LucyMay

LoL, that was the pre-shaadi me

r u just the opposite now? OMG! your poor hubby! :o

[LucyMay]

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@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

r u just the opposite now? OMG! your poor hubby! :o

@CEO1

^
Now she’s the gold digger type.

I joke

Yes now my money is my money, his money is our money

[Mad_Hatter]

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Hahaahah I also like the ‘one drawer in the cupboard for your clothes, two big wardrobes for mine’ logic

[CEO1]

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@LucyMay

Yes now my money is my money, his money is our money

LOL.

[Catskin]

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I like paying for my husband’s expenditures.

[Reha]

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In the beginning, I can understand him wanting to pay and that’s fine. But one the second or third meeting, I’d definitely want to pick up the tab or at least pay my portion.

I don’t think men should pay every single time.

[Krypton]

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can someone take care of all my expenses. thanks. 1-800-adoptme.

[khattichic]

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@LucyMay

Yes now my money is my money, his money is our money

Yai huwi na baat!

[Notanothergirl]

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I like paying for myself and actually anyone else who is with me, if i can…but if I was with a guy, like in a relationship or something Id let him pay…