I was just wondering how much dheet-ness is healthy? Theres this guy who has been calling me for more than a year and i never pick up..n even if i do accidently then i hang up right away and swore at him a billion times but just doesnt get it (lack of self-respect apprently)..All i can think of is he needs serious help! He even knows i am with someone n that i love him alot but i dont know why hes so messed up..I cant change my number cuz my dad would want explainations n its just too complicated..they really dont bother me cuz i could careless if he wad dead but it just makes me wonder wats wrong with him!!!
get a restraining order.
lol how about i find me some gondas
Oh you mean strong guys who are willing to uphold the honor of a girl?
Good luck in finding those :k:
Re: pathetic
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*Originally posted by ~Tikhi Jalebi~: *
.....they really dont bother me cuz i could careless if he wad dead but it just makes me wonder wats wrong with him!!!
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care to shed some light on it?
if its really what it looks like, then you have definitely shown strong attitude than needed and its not healthy.
do you actually know why he wants to talk to you?? reason could be something else than what you think.. I know this boy in my class who used to give flowers to my friend every now and then and apparently she would insult him very often until someone told us about his intentions. He had lost his youngest sister in a car accident and my friend quite resembled his sister at a first sight and it was just his way to heal himself.
he wants me to “be with him forever” yukkkkkkkhhhhhh n doesnt it make u wonder how psychotic the person is to call someone whose been ignoring them for months? n i dont care in the sense that i would rather put up with unwanted calls then get my cellphone taken away
PCG u just have to know how to use them 
desi?
desi wat?
is he desi? the stalker.
you need to talk to him rather than ignoring his phone calls..by the way you can ask your cell phone service to block his phone number, thus you will never get his phone calls.
gosh grls know how to make a fuss about something that is so trivial and you can definitely do alot about it by talking to him.. :-p
^ agreed - tell him to bug off. If you've already done that, get law enforcement involved. First threaten him with the police thing, then really do it.
GtG - sometimes just "talking" does not help...one of my roommates was stalked by this guy after she ended an abusive(mental) relationship with him...he just would not understand that it could not work, it would just not logically register in his brain...he would still call her up a gazillion times, send her emails and what not. He was one creepy/freaky guy.
offcorse hes desi and hes in pakistan though..so i get the pakistani police after him? so they can make some money off of me? n i dont wanna talk to him, hes the most pathetic being on this earth..wat kinda of a guy goes aruond stalking someones girl? hmmmm should i make someone else talk to him?
gemini its unknown calls..n my uncles call me from pakistan too n thats usually how i accidently pick it up
Get your fiance to answer the phone and tell him to back off. That might knock some sense into him. If not your fiance, then another male friend.
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GtG - sometimes just "talking" does not help...one of my roommates was stalked by this guy after she ended an abusive(mental) relationship with him...he just would not understand that it could not work, it would just not logically register in his brain...he would still call her up a gazillion times, send her emails and what not. He was one creepy/freaky guy.
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how did she get rid of him?
Tikhi
I can't get into details, but a lot of drama happend. His family had to step in after he got himself into the hospital by his own stupidity. She also moved away.
eeek he calls you from Pakistan for nothing.. must be a psycho or plenty of money/free time on his hands.
Sehar.. since she didn't say that she was ever in a relationship with this guy so it makes sense to get the thrash out of his mind by having a straightforward conversation.. as far as your friend is concerned, I know someone too who went through the same situation just because it was hard to overcome the tragedy of not being with someone you have loved...so that makes sense too.
Tikhi: you should just change your number and thats the best thing you can do right now since nothing else seems to work out, you can tell your mom about it and then she can convince your dad since you dun want to deal with it..trust me, moms are good at it :-)
Even when I beg people to call me, they refuse 
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jhoot ni daadi.
tj-- change your number?