certainly a matter of opinion. i try not nose around in his past and i would be pissed deadly if he did not return the courtesy. However if you are the sort of person who cares about that certainly discuss it before marriage. I think people change and i like to give them a benefit of doubt. However being all over the place usually turns into a habit and old habits die hard sort of thing.** So yea one should find out what one is getting into before marriage but once u r married i jsut find it weird that you would bring up ur past. what is to be gained?**
here the question is about before marriage.. not afterwards.
would you discuss things prior to getting married...