Re: Passing ones gift to someone else
Ok...there are 2 things first they pass gift to someone else and 2nd do they ( inlaws) like our gift or not??
my sister was coming our house (meika) first time after her marriage about a week or so....then when she was leaving her MIL and told her that we have a tradition that ur mom have to give u a suit when u will come back and im telling u this because when u will come back everybody will be around to see ur suit so dont forget to remind ur mom...
then my sister told whole story to my mom how ever...my mom gave her a very nice dress..even thogh we gave her soooo many dress's in JAHEZ...when she went back to her sasural everyone saw her suit and her SIL ( jhetani ) said this is looking cheap may be ur mom bought from some where juma or itwaar ( friday/sunday) bazar..well my sister was newly wed dulhan thats why she didnt said her anything..but when she told us about that my mom and i was so mad at her...
how do u feel when some one give this kind of cheap comments on ur stuff??
Kinzz.....this is simple basic tameez. Even a little kid would know that you shouldn't make such disrespectful comments about **SOMEBODY **else's gift in front of their face.
Usually when a person behaves like this, it is NOT because that person is innocent bhola bhala and doesn't know what they are saying and made the offensive comment without thinking.
Acutually, in these cases, the person KNOWS exactly what they're doing and the comment is made on purpose. And it reflects the person's JEALOUSY. Your sister did the right thing by staying quiet. She shouldn't drop to the low cheap level of her SIL. The SIL must very miserable on the inside if she can't even make the effort to hide her bitterness for the sake of decency. If people want to show their TRUE CHARACTER and embarrass themselves.....let them do it. The are doing more damage to their OWN repuation with these stupid comments than they are to your sister.