Re: pasand ki shadi n mums
I agree with what people here said. Please make sure to set up expectations upfront on both parties. Regardless if your mother picked her out, there would still be conflict. A point I wanted to make/ask, is do you plan on living with your parents after marriage? If so, does your wife agree to this, make sure to be very clear in a nice way...becuz believe me down the road you can have many surprises. Also if your mother is not satisfied with this marriage, but you still go ahead with it....please be strong as you WILL be in the middle of possibly many battles. Just learn to be fair & just. Remember "What is right is right & what is wrong is wrong". In the future whether its this girl or someone else you marry remember this justness. There will be times your mom will be insecure and come to you about downfalls/complaints about your wife. Listen to her but judge what is right & wrong honestly without bias for either. Same thing with wife. Because your mom doesnt love her.....your wife may come up with complaints justified/unjustified about your mother to bring you closer.....again just keep a clear mind and do the right thing to try to calm both parties in case of strife.